What Working With Me Looks Like
I provide validating, compassionate outpatient psychotherapy via Telehealth in the state of Virginia to adult individuals. My approach to therapy is collaborative - I trust that you are the expert of your own experience and will follow your lead, using evidence-based tools to increase acceptance of the present moment and facilitate the changes you’d like to see in your life.
What I Offer
Therapy is a relational process - period. Our relationship is the cornerstone of the work we will do together. It is never my goal to make you feel fragile or dependent - your autonomy and agency matter deeply to me and I strive to emphasize your strengths. Additionally, it is never my goal to push anyone to do any sort of work they are not comfortable with. While I believe growth can come from stretching our limits and leaning into some discomfort, I aim to avoid retraumatization in any capacity.
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EMDR is a type of treatment that aims to reduce the impact of past distressing events on your present-day experience. While there are many protocols within this treatment, at its core EMDR is a compassionate, evidence-based, trauma-informed approach that works directly with your nervous system and brain’s organic memory processing system to help reduce that “gut punch” feeling that can come with remembering upsetting life events. Once we have established safety and sufficient resources, we will use techniques which involve bilateral stimulation, such as eye movements or “butterfly tapping,” to help your brain “digest” memories that may not be fully processed. As memories process, so, too, can things in the present day that trigger those memories in the body, as well as stories we may have told ourselves about the future. I have completed basic and advanced trainings with this treatment and am in the process of becoming certification-eligible.
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DBT is a multi-pronged treatment that aims to help individuals repair their relationship with their emotions and how they connect with others. While I do not offer the full spectrum of this treatment - which includes weekly skills group, individual therapy, and phone coaching - my practice is informed by both the skills and basic principles of this treatment. If you wish to seek out specific programming such as a skills group that may complement our work, I am happy to provide resources and collaborate with other providers. DBT offers us a sort of “utility belt” of skills, including ways to increase mindful awareness of the present moment, survive crises without making them worse, learn what our emotions are trying to do for us, and feel more confident in asking for what we need and/or setting limits. DBT teaches us the value of the word “and” by helping us find a synthesis between two truths that seem to be at odds.
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I feel it is important to disclaim here that I have not completed formal Internal Family Systems training through the IFS Institute. However, through workshops, webinars, self-study, and mentorship, I have integrated the language and core concepts of this framework into my scope of practice. Parts work teaches us that we all have a core Self who embodies the 8 C’s - Calm, Clarity, Compassion, Confidence, Creativity, Courage, Connectedness, and Curiosity. Because of the experiences we inevitably encounter throughout life, we develop inner parts who perhaps hold on to old wounds such as insecurities and betrayals, parts who protect these wounds, and parts whose job it is to “put the fire out” if a trigger slips past our first line of defense. This framework helps depathologize behaviors one might have learned as a way to try to take care of themselves.
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Please note I am not a crisis intervention provider - I do not have on-call hours where I am available 24/7. Please see my resource page for crisis resources. That being said, I believe in speaking frankly about thoughts of suicide so that we can compassionately treat the drivers of these thoughts without fear of immediately resorting to crisis intervention such as hospitalization. I am trained in the Collaborative Assessment and Management of Suicidality model which gives us the language we need for these honest and difficult conversations.
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I have completed the necessary training to furnish letters to individuals seeking gender-affirming care - whether that is hormone replacement therapy (HRT) or procedures such as top or bottom surgery. These can usually be completed over the course of one or two sessions and can be billed as a psychiatric diagnostic evaluation to your insurance, or covered by an out-of-pocket payment. We can decide what is most comfortable for you financially and in terms of your privacy.